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By Oluwadara Akingbohungbe
A relationship is a means of transporting your glorious destiny, in every relationship, there is always a ship which is why it is called a relationship, you relate in order to progress or to be depressed.
Rather every relationship orchestrated by God is for our advancement (progression).
That relationship is to catapult you to your dreamland, like the saying goes no Man is the Island of Knowledge.
If you say relationship is not necessary, then think deep into the culmination of your total life. You will agree with me that you are not self made.
Truly God will use Your relationship (Connection and interaction with People) to birth his Vision for your life but he will not abandon you to the mercy of Men.
By analysing the strategic Approach to a pleasant and fulfilling relationship and marriage, I will be analysing it from the angle of Contention.
In every pleasant and fulfilling Relationship and Marriage, the opposition is not comfortable with the progression that is leading to the actualisation of the Vision of individuals involved in it.
War is strategic, and from life experiences we can expanxiate that life is a warfare (Examination, Test, Assignment, Game) and the likes.
If you must win, when I mean win, I mean you achieving your Vision and reason for engaging in that Relationship and Marriage, you must engage it with a strategic approach, when I mean strategic approach, I mean adhering strictly to the rules of engagement.
In every Game or battle there are rules of engagement, principle, law and the likes.
The rules of engagement to a fulfilling Relationship And Marriage is Contentment.
1Tim.6.6 But godliness with contentment is great gain.
In your dealings, you must know what you need and the manner of approach.
What causes strive and misunderstanding in every relationship and marriage is manner of approach.
Alot of spouse and siblings have good intentions but the the way the matter is being presented may be unpleasant.
You must know what you want to achieve in life before you approach that lady for marriage, there must be a correlation of your vision with her vision young Man, other wise, there will be misinterpretation.
As a young Man and Lady in a relationship preparing for Marriage, you must be strategic in dealing with yourselves, ask yourselves germane questions about the past, present and future.
Both of you must have a long time goal, not present tense pleasure and excitement. For the young Man ask yourself if you love that lady because of her figure 8 and good looking face imagine in the next 20 years will her present physique still be intact, and an expo for you is that try to study her Mother (that’s for the young Man) for the young lady also try to study his Father, what both of you observe from both parent of your spouse is likely to be inherent in your spouse character at that age in time of your spouse.
The saying goes like father like Son and like Mother like Daughter.
As I am, I knew and understand the attribute I inherited from my Father, and my Father discovered that earlier on time but he didn’t force me to execute it but he navigate my path in the realisation and execution of it.
If you must experience Victory in that Relationship and Marriage you must be connected to the source of that relationship and marriage which is God.
John.8.32 And ye shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free.
Oluwadara Temidayo Akingbohungbe
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